Only love is real Brian L. Weiss

Published on 3 February 2026 at 20:28

From the book by B. L. Weiss

All is love...... All is love. With love comes understanding. With understanding comes patience. And then time stops. And everything is now.
Instantly I comprehended  the truth of these thoughts. Reality is the present. Dwelling in the past or the future causes pain and illness. Patience can stop God's time.  God's love is everything.
I could also immediately comrehended the healing power of these thoughts. I began to understand. 
Love is the ultimate answer. Love is not an abstraction but an  actual energy or spectrum of energies which you can 'create' and maintain in your being.  Just be loving. You are beginning to touch the God within yourself. Feel loving. Express your love. 
Love dissolves fear. You can not be afraid when you are feeling love.  Since everything is energy and  love encompasses all energies, all is love. This is a strong clue to the Natural of God.
 
When you are loving and unafraid you can forgive.  You can forgive others and you can forgive yourself.  You begin to see with the proper perspective. Guilt and anger are reflections of the same fear. Guilt is a subtle anger directed inward.  Forgiveness dissolvess guilt and anger. They are unnecessary demaging emotions.  Forgive. This is an act of love.
Pride can get in the way of forgiving. Pride is one manifestation of ego.  Ego is transient, false self.  You are not your body. You are not your brain.  You are not your ego. You are greater than all of these. You need your ego to survive in the three dimensional world, but you need only the part of the ego which processes information. The rest - pride, arrogance, defensiveness, fear - is more than a useless.  The rest of the ego separates you from the wisdom, joy and God.  You must transcend your ego and find your true self.  The true self is the permanent, deepest part of you. It is wise, loving safe and joyful.
Intellect is important in the three dimensional world, but intuition is more important. 
You have reversed reality and illusion. Reality is the recognition of your immortality, divinity and timelessness. Illusion is your transient three-dimensional world. This reversal is demaging you. You yearn for the illusion of security instead of the security of wisdom and love. You yearn to be accepted when, in reality, you can never be rereject. Ego creates illusion and hides the trtruth. Ego must be dissolved than  truth can be seen. 
With love and understanding, comes the perspective of infinite patience. What is your hurry? There is no time anyway; it only feels that way to you. When you are not experiencing the present, when you are absorbed in the past or worryied about the future., you bring great heartache and grief to yourself. Time is an illusion, too. Even in the three-dimensional world, future is only a system of probabilities. Why do you worry so?
Therapy, can be done to the self. Understanding is therapy. Love is the ultimate therapy. Therapists, teachers and gurus can help, but only for a limited time. The direction is inward and sooner or later the inward path must be trod alone . Although in reality you are never alone.
Measure time, if you must, I lesson learned, not in minutes or hours or years. You can cure yourself in five minutes if you come to the proper understanding. Or in 50 years. It is all the same thing.
 
The past must be remembered and then forgotten. Let it go. This is true for childhood traumas and past life traumas.  But this is also true for attitudes, misconceptions, belief systems drummed into you for all the old thoughts. Indeed for all the thoughts. How can you see freshly and clearly with all those thoughts? What if you need to learn something new? With a fresh perspective? 
Thoughts create the illusions of separateness and difference.  Ego perpetuates this illusion and this illusion creates fear, anxiety and tremendous grief. Fear, anxiety and grief create anger and violence. How can peace exist in the world when these chaotic emotions predominate? Just upravil.  Go back to the source of the problem. You are back to the thoughts, old thoughts. Stop thinking. Instead, use your intuitive wisdom to experience love again. Meditate. See that everything is interconnected and interdependent. See the unity, not the differences. See your true self. See God.
Meditation and visualization will help you stop thinking so much and will help you begin the journy back. Healing will occur.  You will begin to use your  unused mind. You will see. You will understand. And you will grow wise. Then there will be peace.
You have a relationship with yourself as well as others. And you have lived in many bodies and in many times. So ask your present self why is it so fearfull?  Why are you afraid to take reasonable risks? Are you afraid of your reputation, afraid of what others think? These fears are conditioned from childhood or before.
Ask yourself these questions. What to lose? What is the worst that can happen? Am I content to live the rest of my life this way?  Against a background of death, is this so risky? 
In your growth, do not be afraid of evoke anger in other people. Anger is only a manifestation of  their insecurity. But fearing this anger can hold you back.  Anger would be merely stupid if it didn't create so much  grief. Dissolve your own anger in love and forgiveness.
Do not let depression or anxiety hold you back in your growth. Depression is a losing of perspective, forgetting and taking things for granted. Sharpen your focus. Reset your values. Remember what should not be taken for granted. Shift your perspective and remember what is important and what is less important. Get out of the rut.  Remember to hope.
Anxiety is being lost in the ego. It is losing one's  boundaries. There is a dimly remembered loss of love, a wounding of pride, a loss of patience and peace. Remember, you are never alone. Never lose the courage to take risks. You are immortal. You ccan never be hurt.
 
Action becomes right action when it becomes action along the Way,  along the Path toward God.  All other paths are eventuálnÄ› blond allays or illusions and action along those paths is not right action. Thus right action promotes the individual's spirituality  and his return. Action that fosters justice and mercy and love and wisdom and the attributes that we call godly or spiritual is inevitably right action. The fruits of actions along the other paths are transient,  illusory and false.  These fruits entrap and deceive but they are not what we really desire.  The fruits of right action encompass  all our goals and wishes and all that we need or desire.
 
Fame is one example. He that seeks fame as an end in itself may achieve fame for a while. But that fame will be temporary and will not gratify. If, however, fame comes to one unbidden,  as a result of a right action, action along the Path, that fame will endure and will be proper. But to the person on the Path, it will not matter.  This is the difference between fame sought selfishly, for the individual and fame unsought and not desired, a by-product of right action. The first is illusion and is impermanent.  The second is real and permanent, adheringt to the soul. The first accrues karma and must be balanced; the second does not.
 God forgives, but you also have to be forgiven by people....and you have to forgive them. Forgiveness is also your responsibility. You must forgive and you must be forgiven. Psychoanalysis does not repair the damage. You still have go beyond understanding and make changes, improve the world, repair relationships, forgive others and accept their forgiveness. Being active in seeking virtue is of the utmost importance. Lip service is not enough. Intellectual understanding without applying the remedy is not enough. Expressing your love is.